Facebook Revealed

Chris Vollum, Facebook 101 Facilitator

There isn't a teenager anywhere (and many adults) who doesn't know what 'Facebook' is.

This is a social networking phenomenon that has opened up a world through the internet.  There are 134 million users now on Facebook and 18 million of them are in Canada.  In fact, it is the most visited site in Canada.  Wall Street now estimates the company at $15 billion. 

Unfortunately, it also has a dark side that everyone and, particularly, parents should know about.  There are more than 35,000 unmonitored third-party 'fun' applications but, there's more than that.

According to expert Chris Vollum, "Unfortunately, Facebook has also become a major cyber-bullying tool, an invasion of privacy and, in some cases, should be a major concern to parents."  A father, Chris' 15 year-old-daughter wanted to go on Facebook and it was then that he began to research it.  "What I found out every parent and every student should know and so I set about trying to help others understand it."

The Bluewater School District has blocked Facebook from access in its system as as the Halton Catholic School Baord and the Halton Public Board is currently in the process of blocking it.

"I know kids think it's fun and, perhaps, used in the right way it is," says Vollum, "but they must be made aware of the pitfalls. They don't realize that once something is on there, it's on forever.  A potential employer can access information, universities are now using it to see if there are any sordid details to potential students they be allowing into schools and, of course, the bullying is escalating."

Kids are not the only ones to be involved in Facebook problems.  Adult Identity Theft is huge through Facebook and it is the number one target for hackers.  "There are preventative measures that users can take," explains Vollum, "but you have to realize, once your information is out there, it's there for anyone to view and read.  Also, you may think that you can leave the site at any time but, all information and photos you have put onto Facebook remain forever. 

Vollum lectures to parent and teacher groups and has begun speaking to students themselves in schools.  "Kids, more often than not, don't realize the capability that Facebook has for information archiving and that, once their name is on there, it stays."

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There are ten tips that Vollum readily gives out:

1.  Your Facebook experience begins with "Adding a Friend".  Before doing that, ask yourself this question.  "Would I trust this person alone in my home with mine and my family's most valuable possessions and information?"  If the answer is no, don't add them.

2.  Never, ever give your Facebook password out to anyone.  Ever!

3.  Remember, what you put on the the Internet stays there forever!  You can do your best to hide your information and pictures, but you can never control who might see them.  So, it's best to post only positive words, comments and pictures.  Facebook is all about choices.  The choices you decide to post will reflect who you are, what you think about in the world and what you value.  Other people will judge you based on the quality of the content you post and comment on.

4.  On Facebook you can post personal information like things you enjoy such as movies, music, special interests, clubs you're in and the school you attend.  Facebook keeps all this information.  Be careful not to add too much.  NEVER post email addresses, cell phone or home phone numbers or your house address.

5.  If you decide to add a 'fun' application such as Bumper Stickers or Greeting Cards, you are giving the developer of that application ALL of your information and all the information of your Facebook friends.  Often, that developer has no security.

6.  Do NOT post any pictures or comments that are embarrassing of you or your friends that could lead to cyber-bullying.  Play it safe.  Also do NOT 'tag' your friends in any photos.  That photo automatically goes out to their entire Friends' list.

7.  Make sure that in our 'Privacy Settings' under "Profile" your 'Photos Tagged of Me' is set to "ONLY ME".

8.  Many employers, college and university leaders are now checking your Facebook profile to see what kind of material you are posting ... make sure it is positive.

9.  Always leave your Status Updates EMPTY.  Updating mean you reveal where you are or what you are doing and it's information that a friend or anyone else can use.

10. NEVER use your own picuture as your profile picture.  It can easily be copied and transferred to someone else's computer and changed to embarrass you.

For more information:  email: whatisfacebook@gmail.com