“Reynolds you're
benched.” These were the dreaded words of my childhood
days in sports. Whether it was on the baseball diamond,
the soccer field, the basketball court or some other
sport I was playing, I did everything I could to avoid
hearing these words from my coach.
At one time
benches were a place of fear, inadequacy and not cutting
it. They represented “not being in the game.” And if I
wasn't in the game, then somehow I was missing
something. My life would be less somehow, and I would
be left out.
Benches have a
different meaning for me these days. The benches in our
area ask people to come and sit. There is an invitation
to pause and rest a while. Take a look around you.
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Bring a book with you and stay a
while. Have a conversation with someone. Bring your lunch. Watch the
sunset. Or watch a storm brewing over the lake. A bench may give us a
chance to stop and reflect for a while.
I have a friend who is eighty six
who often says just before he sits down on a bench, “yep, I'm gonna rest
my bones for a while.” Maybe that is what benches do for us. They help
our bones rest for a while. Whether they are three year old bones that
rest for barely thirty seconds or older bones which need a little
longer, benches give something to our community.
I wonder if benches are some of
the most important places in Saugeen Shores. Have you sat on one
lately? Maybe I'll see you there.
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